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We always believe we will live forever. Bad things
always happen to others. Only when things hit us bang on your head you
realise... Life is so unpredictable.... My husband was an IT guy ...all
techie...And I am a chartered accountant...Awesome combination you may think...
Techie guy so everything is
on his laptop ...his to do list... his e-bill and his bank statements in his
email... He even maintained a folder
which said IMPWDS...wherein he stored all login id and passwords for all his
online accounts...And even his laptop had a password ... Techie guy so all the
passwords were alpha-numeric with a special character not an easy one to crack
...Office policy said passwords needed to be changed every 30 days...So every
time I accessed his laptop I would realise it's a new password again... I would
simply opt for asking him 'What's the latest password' instead of taking the
strain to memorise it.
You may think me being a
Chartered Accountant would means everything is documented and filed properly...
Alas many of my chartered accountant friends would agree that the precision we
follow with our office documents and papers do not flow in to day to day home
life...At office you have be epitome of Reliability I Competent I Diligent etc
but... at home front there is always a tomorrow ... One fine morning my hubby
expired in a bike accident on his way home from office. His laptop with all his
data crashed...everything on his hard disk wiped off No folder of IMPWDS to refer back to... But
that was just the beginning... I realised I had a lot to learn... 9 years
married, no kids, just the two of µs to fall back on, but now I stood all alone
and lost.
Being a chartered accountant
helped in more ways than one but it was not enough... I needed help...His
saving bank accounts, his salary bank accounts had no nomine...On his insurance
his mom was the nominee and it was almost 2 years back she had expired ... but
this was just a start .... I didn't know the password to his email account
where all his e-bill came ...I didn't know •which expenses he paid by standing
instructions...
The house we bought with all
the excitement...on a loan...thought with our joint salary we could afford the
EMl... when the home loans guys suggested insurance on the loan...we decided
the instead of paying the premium the difference in the EMI on account of the
insurance could be used pay towards prepayment of the loan and .get the tenure
down...We never thought what we would do if we have to live on a single salary.
So now there was huge EMI to look into I
realised I was in for a long haul... Road
accident case, so everywhere I needed a
Death certificate, FIR report, Post Mortem report. For everything there were
forms running into pages, indemnity bonds, notary...surety to stand up
for you...No objections certificates from your co-heirs.. I learnt other than your
house, your land ... your car, your bike are also your property ... So what if
you are the joint owner of the flat...you don't become the owner just because
your hubby is no more... So what if your hubby expired in the bike
accident...and you are the nominee but if the bike is in a repairable condition
...you have to get the bike transferred in your name to claim the
insurance...And that was again not easy... the bike or car cannot be
transferred in your name without going through a set of legal documents ... Getting
a Succession Certificate is another battle all together ...
Then came the time you
realise now you have to start changing all the bills, assets in your
name...Your gas connection, electricity meter, your own house, your car, your
investments and all sundries... And then change ati the nominations where your
own investments are concerned...And again a start of a new set of paperwork...
To say I was shaken...my
whole life had just turned upside down was an understatement. ..You realise you
don't have time to mourn and grieve for the person with whom you spent the best
years of your life...because you are busy sorting all the paper work ... I
realised then how much I took life for granted...! thought being a chartered
accountant I am undergoing so many difficulties...what would have happened to
someone who was house maker who wouldn't understand this legal hotchpotch...
A sweet friend then told me
dear this was not an end...you have no kids...your assets will be for all who
stand to claim...after my hubby's sudden death...I realised it was time I took
life more seriously... Inow needed to make a Will... Iwould have laughed a few
months back if he had asked me to make one ...But now life had taken a twist.
..
Lessons learnt this hard way
were meant to be shared...After all why should the people whom we love the most
suffer after we are no more...Sorting some paperwork before we go will at least
ease some of their grief ...
1. Check all your nominations... Bank Accounts, Fixed
Deposits, NSC, Bank Lockers Demat Accounts,Insurance (Life,Bike or Car er
Property}, investments, PPF etc.
2. Passwords.... We
have passwords for
practically everything What
happens when your next of kin
cannot access any of these simply because they do not know your password... Put
it down on a paper...
3. Investments... Every year for tax purpose we do
investments... Do we maintain an excel sheet about it... If so is it on the
same laptop of which the password you had not shared... Where are those
physical investments hard copy...
4. Will... Make a Will...t know you will smile even I would...had
I not gone through all what Idid...lt would have made my life lot easier...a
lot less paperwork...I wouldn't have had to provide an indemnity bond, get it
notarised, ask surety to stand up, no objections certificates from others...
.5. Liabilities... When you
take a loan say for your house or car ...Check out on all the what
ifs...what if I am not there tomorrow
...what if I lose my job ...Will the EMI still be within my range...lf not get
an insurance on the loan...The people left behind will not have to worry on
something as basic as their own house...
My battles have just
begun...But let us at least try and make few changes so that our loved ones
would not suffer after we go...We do not know what will happen in the
future...But as the Scout motto goes: Be prepared!!Learn from my experience and
prepare today for the unexpected. A little effort now will save your loved ones
a lot of trouble later.
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